Everyone in this world must have got cheated.
I don't need to tell you much about the trauma a person undergoes after getting cheated.
I have been cheated many times in my life. My friends, teachers, brothers, sisters, etc, all have cheated me. I have got a lot of experience as a victim. I used to literally cry like a baby when someone used to cheat me. I always had the notion that these people are feeling less.
Now, I remain aloof from others. Since, I fear that if I allow anyone to come close to me then again I will get cheated. Now, I just don't trust anyone. I feel like I have lost in a desert with no chance to survive. Now, I'm very confused of what to do and what not to do.
But, then if I look at the other side of the coin, I feel that it is good that people cheat because this all gives me lot of experience to tackle such situations in future. Also, I get a chance to know the true nature of the people. It also teaches me that in this world everyone is alone and you have to find your own way with no one to guide you. Your only guide is your previous experiences. So, more early you get a chance to see different conditions more prepared you are for your adulthood.
So, now, I feel that even you won't feel disheartened as there is a lot more to learn from each passing moment than to just cry over those moments.
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