When I had my first daughter it was hard enough just giving birth. After we got home we thought it would be easy but it wasn't we had sleepless nights and she would not stop crying. Then my husband went back to work so I was on my own what made it so bad was he worked night.
So I had the sleepless night by myself it got a little easier as she grew up, but right when it stared to get easy I found out I was pregnant again. I was happy I was having another child but I did not want to go through the sleepless night again. Now that I have both of them it is harder than every my oldest talks to much and my young can't talk at all so she cry's all day all. All I am saying is if you are going to have kids make sure you're ready.