Life and love... These two are always together, though some people only got either of the two. It's either they live without loving... or they just love without living... Its confusing, isn’t it?
Try to think this: you love something or someone that you give everything to them--your time, your energy and even your whole life. Do you think you still live? Aren't you dead? In this case you are so ’in love of something’ that you are giving even your own happiness... so it means you are as good as dead... you're then “NOT LIVING"! And so you don’t have a life.
Other people do live but they never learned to love. Think of those people who know nothing but to make their career good, make their investment higher, make their opponents surrender and make good money for themselves --- people who think nothing but survival, fame and money... and they have forgotten LOVE... They have forgotten to do things that can make them happy. They are blinded with their position and possessions. Their fame and glamour... And later in their lives they will know... They have lived but they have not loved... They existed but they weren't really living...
This is my first entry and I don't really know if I am making this one right. I just want to share my thoughts to others... to those who can read this, think twice and give some little time for yourself to ponder about your own life. You alone can decide for the kind of life you will be living but remember " we just live once" so lets not waste every millisecond of the precious gift God has given to us---OUR LIFE!
When you live in fear of losing something, then you never really have or experience it. When you avoid attempting anything because you fear failure, then failure is exactly what you get.
No good effort is ever wasted, for even if it fails to produce any outer value, the inner value is always there. Even when what you do is not recognized or reciprocated or appreciated, still you have had the priceless blessing of doing it.
If you constantly seek the validation of others, you will often be disappointed. Yet when you live, and love and act in each moment with the best that you have to give, the real value you create can never be diminished