Someone asked me today what it is that I look for in a girl. I had to think for a bit, but I came up with a few thoughts. A sense of humour is a must. I can't be with someone who can't enjoy a good laugh. She doesn't have to be “hot”, but there's gotta be some sort of physical attraction. Basically, she doesn't have to be beautiful, but I have to be able to see her as such. I've always found the shorter girls cute. Or maybe I've just found the taller ones a bit intimidating. Being short is not a pre-requisite, but subconsciously I've always associated them as cute, so they get bonus points for both.
Let's see… what else… well, we would need to have things in common. It doesn't have to be a lot of things; it doesn't have to be anything major, just something that reminds me we share something. Something that keeps us talking, keeps us occupied, just something. She has to be able to hold a conversation. I don't mind the shy girls either; they can be pretty wild when they want to. I like that. Similar interests are always good too, but I guess that's the same as having things in common. This is my story, so I'll allow it - deal with it.
I also really like the nice girls. A bad attitude is such an ugly turn off. I'm not really picky about physical features. Again, as long as there is some sort of physical attraction, it works for me. I've dated both older and younger girls. The younger girls are good because they can be moulded. Sounds superficial, but in all honesty, who wouldn't want to have someone they can customize to there specifications. Like c'mon really.
Quite honestly, I've always been attracted to older girls. I don't know why, but I have. People say I'm really mature for my age, so maybe I like them older because they are someone I can talk to on a more mature level. Who knows why really, but I like them anyway. It's kind of hard sometimes because it's not really easy to find a girl interested in dating a guy a few years younger. It's kind of bit me in the ass before, but then again I've never judged a girl because of another one's actions. Understanding is also big points in my book. I may be mature, but I am still young. I've got learning and growing up to do just like anyone else. I like a girl who knows what she wants too. I've had girls ask me out and I've said yes simply because I was impressed that they weren't too shy to approach me. Not that I hate shyness, but I'm a shy guy at times, so someone approaching me saves me the fear of rejection, which is basically what shyness boils down to, isn't it?
I'm an easy going guy, so this ideal girl would have to be pretty easy going also. This may be a long list, but I don't think this a lot to ask. Just someone I can find sexy, hang out with, share a good laugh with. More or less this is all I ask.
I'm a really easy going guy. I'm not being conceited, just honest. The only way to actually offend me would be to purposely go out of your way to do so. I don't judge anyone for anything, and I often give people the benefit of the doubt. Which isn't always good to do, but if it's a mistake I'll deal with it when the time comes. I may not talk to someone out of shyness, but there are very few people in this world I actually avoid talking to.
The one thing that's always attracted me to women, is probably the same thing that attracts all people at some point. I love finding that one girl who can just make me melt. The one who makes me feel like million bucks. That girl who is going to put a smile on my face just by saying “hi!” The one who notices me staring me at her, and then she'll stare right back, and even come back with a smile, or even a wink. To me attraction usually refers to something physical, interest signifies something mental, but love, now that's purely emotional. That's all we're all really looking for in the end, love. The thing about true love is, no one really knows what it is. Anyone who says they do is either lying or just wrong. Good for them. They're probably really happy too. Everyone has their opinions about what it is.The dictionary defines love as an “Intense feeling of desire”. This may be true, but you'll never see True Love in the dictionary. It's a relative term; it's something different to everyone. There's nothing wrong with thinking you've found it, there's nothing with believing you know what it is. If you've found it, that's great. I can't wait to say the same one day. I'd hate to waste so much time thinking I'll never find it because it doesn't exist, and then have it pass me by. Losing love is hard, but not finding it in the first place can be worse.
