I was recently introduced to the most undignified, demeaning talk radio show in existence, & the most rash, presumptuous man that ever walked the planet. His name is Tom Leykis, he hosts a talk radio show out of Cali anchored in getting men laid & helping them to avoid any type of commitment or emotional involvement. For some hormonal, superficial guys, this may sound right up your ally. For guys with any morals or respect its probably the most ridiculous & distasteful thing on the air. I was pretty upset to find out that a lot of people I thought I knew buy into this crap. So do my friends think that all women are to be objectified & ill-treated? If any guy thinks for a second that I would allow myself or any of my friends to be personally subjected to this kind of exploitation, they have another thing coming.
In all fairness there are a several subjects on which I actually agree with this schmuck, but it's not enough to win me over. He reccomends a paternity test if a man has any doubt, which makes perfect sense to me. He even goes as far as to say they should be mandatory, which I'm not too opposed to. Tom tells his listeners, who he also calls his "students", that "You should be using birth control & so should she." Absolutely, Tom. Couldn't have said it better myself. Another Tom quote, "If you must get married it should go without saying to get a prenuptial agreement." Change the word "must" to "do", & I agree. A pre-nup is never a bad idea. Contrary to what is probably his reasoning, some women become successful too. I know! Shocking! Another "You're paying for the date then you choose where to have it. The person who is paying is the person who decides." Makes sense. Last of all, & most importantly, Tom tells his "students", "Your friends & habits were there before she was. She took you as you are. If she's not happy with it, she's the one that changed & she needs to deal with it." I agree 100%. But it works both ways. Who I am is who I am as well, & the only person I will ever change for is me. To ask that of someone else would only be hypocritical & degrading.
Now you're probably thinking, "What's this girls beef with this guy? He sounds alright." Well, it starts with the fact that he feels a need to constantly refer to all females as "bitches" & "whores". The first time I ever heard his show, he was encouraging men to cheat on their wives (& he says we're not to be trusted..). He refers to divorce & abortion as if they were no different than trading in a car or getting a cavity filled. There are a few exceptions where need for such things can be understood, but any guy who endorses killing innocent babies practically as a hobby, is no hero of mine. In fact, heres hisnot. It is as simple as that. Refraining from complimenting us won't turn you into some almighty sex god who we'll start drooling over. Tom tells his students, "Your goal is to make a girl feel like she doesn't matter & that she is easily replaceable." If you have the ability to make any girl feel like she is easily replaceable, she probably is. You're no mastermind for making her feel this way. Secret: she already felt that way; you're dating losers. No bragging rights there. Who listens to this? Here's some more excellent advice: "Pretend to be rich. Fake business cards, home address's, expensive clothes, etc, & have your friends lie for you." Newsflash: a typical girls "fantasy man" doesn't consist of someone who makes a lot of money & can finance the rest of her life, with the exception of the few twisted gold diggers out there. If you are lying about your job, life, etc, you probably have some serious issues as do those few money grubbing skanks after you. A match made in heaven I suppose. And to wrap it up! "If she goes on vacation without you, you're getting played!" Now women are not allowed vacations without being chaperoned? I thought Tom was against "controlling & demanding"? If you're that worried about your girlfriend cheating on you, you're either insecure or just dating sluts.
It makes me wonder, if we got all of the Tom Leykis "students" together in one big room…if we could lock them in it…kidding. But wouldn't we have one hell of a crowd? Not enough shrinks & plastic surgeons in the world to conquer that one! I don't promote violence, but I'd secretly high five the man who kicked this guy in the head. I hate just about everything he stands for. He is against any type of real connection & practically the anti-marriage poster boy. Tom has obviously never heard of the word "FAMILY". Which happens to be the single most important thing in the world to me. He is the Hitler equivalent against traditional values. How he is allowed to get on the air & bash women daily is shocking to me. Would anyone be allowed this kind of hostility towards african american people or any other social sect? I think not. His portrayal of women as unfaithful, manipulative, & dumb is the SINGLE most offensive thing I have ever encountered. There are still women out here who believe in things like family, fidelity, independence, & morals. Not all of us are afraid of getting our hands dirty, standing up for ourselves, & learning how to cook & clean while still managing a career if we want to. We don't all get excited over "new shoes" & idolize Paris Hilton. It's women like that who have given Tom his ideology. Tom encourages men to spend their lives jumping from one shallow lay to the next. What about those of us who aren't up for it? Are we doomed to be alone? This sounds like a thrill to some guy in his twenties who's had his heart broken once or twice & hates all women for it. But would a lifetime of this be fulfilling? I myself see nothing wrong with acting young & wild, when you are just that, but I can honestly say I wouldn't want to go my whole life never experiencing that rush of truly loving one person so much that you want to share your life with them. There's a difference between growing up & getting older I suppose; he still holds the mentality of a boy in puberty. Plus, his advice is less than competent. He's a fat, middle-aged, unattractive man with an annoying voice & 4 divorces who was arrested for domestic violence against his 4th wife...& people are taking advice from him...you've got to be kidding me. Of course all the women he comes across are scheming, untrustworthy con-artists. This insensitive, sexist, sweaty tub of lard couldn't please a woman in his dreams, what else would the few women that go for him be after BUT his money? My guess would be that this guy goes home & cries every night over a girl that broke his heart in Junior High. Its almost pathetic how many times he reflects back to his income daily. Sad, bitter, little fat man living a lie. He sells this stuff, but I doubt he's happy. He stereotypes women, & feeds perfectly decent guys who've probably been hurt 2 or 3 times a bunch of blasphemy when they're just desperate enough to buy into it. My advice, when you're lucky enough to find someone who truly cares about you, don't exploit them with this bullshit. Whatever the hell happened to basic human kindness, respect, honesty, trust, decency, "to have & to hold"? People like Tom Leykis happened to it. Thats what. explanation of it: "Build up her confidence in your loyalty. This should be done with something like 'Honey, it's great that your pregnant. You know that I love you so much & that I want to spend the rest of my life with you. But we are not ready to have a child. When we are ready, will be able to afford the very best for our baby.' then after she falls for it & gets the abortion, buy her an egg McMuffin & dump her." I swear if I were close enough, I'd puke on this guy. In addition, Toms philosophy says if there is no sex by the third date, a Leykis student is instructed to "dump that bitch". On top of that, Leykis says, "If a woman ever says NO, immediately get your stuff, & leave." Oh, I see. So basically if you're seeing a girl with any values or self-respect, stop. Immediately. Wouldn't want to be caught dead dating someone who felt she was worth something. Lets face it, any girl who doesn't know the word "no" has probably been slammed more than a jail cell door. Even if you do hit it, you'd probably be just as well off fornicating with a pickle jar. (Please excuse my crudeness. I'm just that mad.) The jist of this: the perfect woman is a brainless submissive creature who has no morals & never says no. Maybe he'd be in favor of just sewing every female mouth shut at birth. Nice. Moving on, "Never waste money on dinner. The money can be better spent on buying her liquor & getting back to her place to bang her." Now, that's a standup guy. If Tom Leykis students have to get women drunk & take advantage of them in order to get laid, I'm going to guess they're not the best looking bunch, then again, just look at him. This is my favorite: "Men are encouraged to carry some hot sauce to pour inside the used condom. Women attempt to impregnate themselves with the contents of used condoms, in an effort to extract child support payments from the man." Wow, I'm no shrink but I know what the word paranoid means... I wonder if he keeps both hands on his wallet during sex to keep the monsters hiding under the woman's bed from stealing his identity. No wonder he has to get them drunk, wouldn't want said woman to notice anything weird when he knocked on wood, turned around three times & threw salt behind his back before climbing into bed (toes first) to avoid any bad luck. Next up, "Don't answer her calls on weekends. You don't want to look like a loser who has nothing better to do than wait for her to call." If you have to lie or be false to keep from looking like a "loser" YOU PROBABLY ARE ONE. Here's another one of Tom's rules that I believe to be one of the most obtuse: "When you take her out to dinner, just order a green salad, so you can save money. No woman wants to eat more than you or else she'll look like a pig." HA! If you were lucky enough to get a date with a confident woman & you get a salad, she's probably going to get the impression that you have to work WAY too hard to keep the body you have & you'll probably get as fat as Tom within the next few years (which the salad eater is not confident enough to pull off). Plus she'll assume that you are self-conscious about the way you look, which is always a turnoff. In this case she WILL order something expensive just so the date wasn't a total waste, & she'll probably go home & call someone more masculine. Definitely bad advice. More from Tom: "Read several books about divorce agreements so you have a good idea going before you get married." Alright, if you're going into a marriage already so concerned about a divorce that you go through the trouble to read a buncha hooschwa (when you very likely could be having sex with your fiancé) then there is probably something very wrong about yourself or the person your going to marry (or its not there in bed). Either way, my advice, don't get married if this is a "priority" in your mind at the time. Tom says, "Never compliment a women. It will lesson your chance of getting laid." Right. And not eating will make you fat. Take it from a girl, being a barbaric jackass isn't a turn-on. There are guys we are attracted to, & guys we are
From the Horse's Mouth
"Remember, we are jerks and assholes that don't give a shit." -Tom Leykis
"There is no God. Period." -Tom Leykis
"I think gang rape is a myth. Bitches will get it in their heads that they want to be treated badly, want to feel like dirt & be with a whole lot of different guys, then afterwards they'll regret it. They'll lash out at the men they used to fulfill their fantasy." -Tom Leykis, to a female gang rape victim in Pakistan
Ou-Contrar, some views of others:
"Seriously, the guy is a joke and a fraud. Couldn't get laid in a whorehouse with a winning lottery ticket. If you were going to muster all of his listeners, you better not plan it for the same weekend as a Star Trek convention. Don't think they could handle the conflict of interests"
"His audience is comprised of pissed off, rejected, shallow lost souls"
"controlling & demanding"? If you're that worried about your girlfriend cheating on you, you're either insecure or just dating sluts.
"You know, This whole thing is for shock value...purely. I cant imagine some one being so stupid that they have to take lessons on getting laid on the radio from some short, balding, fat divorcee."
"He preaches deception, mental games, selfishness, lies, & sexist, macho behavior over truthful, meaningful, loving relationships. As long as he has a following, young people's relationships will be anything but relationships, and the gap between men and women will widen."
"In short, he's a symbol of what is wrong with our modern culture -- cynicism has trumped optimism, crudeness has beat down class."
"I'd miss when he would call out how ignorant a bitch was when they would call in & argue with their emotions instead of their logic (do chics even have logic?)" -A Tom Leykis student when asked what he'd miss about the show....
***Yes, pig... We chicKs do have logic. Want to argue me on it?
"A classless pig like this couldn't warrant any air time or a following by anyone BUT ignorant curs and the scaggy whores they deserve."
